The thought doesn't count. The action is what counts. Stop
saying things to the one you love without doing things to prove it. It isn't
enough to just love someone. You have to show your love every single day.
Don't let your fears, your past, your pride or your
selfishness interfere with you making an effort. Even if you're scared or weak, don't stop
fighting for the one you love. You need to give her your time and all of your
heart. Grab her hand when times are stressful and keep her calm. Kiss her face
every chance you get, spoil her and make her feel special every day.
Remember, this is the woman who has changed your life, who
has made you a better man. This woman loves all your flaws and wrongness. This
woman will wipe your tears and take away your fears. By loving your
imperfections, she will change you. You need to appreciate this woman because
you know in your heart you will never give all of you like that to anyone else;
no one will love you better. A true connection is once in a lifetime.
This kind of love is rare. It is special. You need to fight
for it! You think it is supposed to be easy all the time, but nothing good is
easy. You think the more chances you have, the better off you are. You might
think there’s something better, but it’s all an illusion.
The woman you fell for is beautiful, opinionated and
smart. She doesn't always agree with you
and can be difficult. She is a
challenge, but the easy girl will never fulfill you. She argues with you because
she cares. She has big dreams for the future with you. She never lets you get
away with slacking off because she knows what you have, and she will never put
up with not getting everything she deserves.
Don’t risk losing the best thing you ever had. Whatever you
do, don’t let her get away. It may be difficult at times but she will never
leave you displeased or unhappy. However, she will leave if you keep taking
advantage of her. You think that no matter what you do, she will always be
there because she loves you. Nonetheless, remember that you fell for the woman
who won't just go with the flow because she knows her worth. She doesn't settle
for someone who doesn't put her first.
You found a love that keeps growing and that keeps your soul
alive. Don't let this love slip away because of your ego, pride or selfish
ways. Wake up and realize she's worth fighting for. If you don't, you are the
one who will grieve the most.
~J. Lynn
